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Why coaching? Does any one need coaching?

Why coaching become so popular? What is the vacuum that coaching is filling?
By Irit Gezler

Any Decision is better than No-Decision.

About the Law of Decision making. Is really any decision is better than no-decision?
By Irit Gezler

A Short Blanket

Is the "Short Blanket" a fact of life? What comes first, the reality of shortage that creates our believes, or our mind programing that create the reality?
By Irit Gezler

Does a Jellyfish have Self-Confidence?

The connection between Self-Confidence and Self-Borders
By Irit Gezler

The "Vampire" o r "Sleeping with the enemy"

people who use others in order to nourish their own self-esteem and self-importance
By Irit Gezler

What's in it for me?

Why is it important to break this cycle of automatic math that does not leave any space for love, empathy, compassion?
By Irit Gezler

To be "not knowing"

The "not knowing" state can help us create a whole new inner and outer world for ourselves. The "known", on the other hand, rewrites our reality.
By Irit Gezler

Cliche

A lesson about cliche's - Cliche's are bad for good communication...
By Irit Gezler

Who am I?

The "I am ..." affirmations we use to say about ourselfs, that are limiting
By Irit Gezler

The All or Nothing Syndrome

For most people there is at least one area, if not more, which they approach as "all or nothing." This "all or nothing" is a non-compromising state of mind. More often than not, it can "trip us up," even becoming destructive. How does the "All or Nothing" syndrome manifest itself?
By Irit Gezler

Is it Possible to Stop a Wave in the Middle of its Break?

As we create our reality with our thoughts, choices and actions, we might think that we can always change our minds, reconsider, start a new plane, delete and restart a new state of mind to create different reality. However, this is only partly true. Along this process, there are points of "no return". A point of no return is a point, after we began and are already in the midst of our creative process, where it is impossible to stop the process and all that is left is to sit idle until the act finishes its course and dissolves, until the energy that is accumulated will be exposed, and if we don't continue to add energy, it will disappear. At this stage there is nothing to do in order to turn the wheel back.
By Irit Gezler

Be Smart or Die

One of the premier human motivations is the wish to be smart and the fear to be stupid. Although those motivations considered to be a good thing, they might cause inhibitions, and they might paralyze one's actions.
By Irit Gezler

Let whatever happens to be alright

A person that thinks by using the approach of "Allow whatever happens to be alright" get less attached to things. He does not think that in order to be happy and feel good, things should be and take place precisely in a certain way; he does not managed by the paradigm of "my way"; he is more flexible and free to receive things as they are; to accept them and be curious to see how anything that happens can begin to emerge as something new and well, and better.
By irit Gezler

Mata Hari: The Wild Woman

This is a Cinderella story. The orphaned, underdog girl, who fell into the arms of the violent husband and suffered abuse and humiliation, reinvents herself in Paris, the city of lights, and turns into an exotic princess who frees herself from all inhibitions imposed by conservative society, who decides to stop being a "victim" and turns into the sole executive of her life, who knows both the power of her femininity and the male "weakness."
By Irit Gezler

The Cemetery for Murdered Ideas

Even if an idea cannot be fulfilled now, even if it draws criticism - if you believe in it and think it to be worth it, don't give up on it. An idea is like a seed. It needs to be planted and watered, and with a little patience it will eventually sprout, one way or another...
By Irit Gezler